Person First. Mommy Second.

mommyI had such a monumental moment in my life the last six weeks. My seven-year old was away for the summer for the first time ever. Not only was she away from me, but she was thousands of miles away from me. To give you a better picture, I live in Memphis, Tennessee and she was in Portland, Oregon, the majority of her time. I was very glad to have some me time for a while, but I also had some understandable apprehension. The situation was new for both of us. We’ve never spent more than a week apart the last seven years and I didn’t know how I (or she) would hold up for such a long period of time away from each other. Surprisingly, I had the hardest time than she did. We talked every day, but I promise, she was having such a blast being with other family members that she didn’t seem to have a hard time coping – not one day.

The time off gave me a LOT of time to do some soul-searching. There were days where I was busy doing non-mommy things from dawn to dusk. Other days, I had absolutely nothing to do. In between all of that time, I learned that outside of promoting my first book, I’d spent the last seven years being ‘mommy first’ and Christin second. Some of the time, I couldn’t find things to do. I was out the loop on much of the local happenings. Many of my relationships with people had become few and far in between in the last seven years, so I didn’t necessarily have tons of people to call to say, “Let’s hang out” or “What are you doing later.” Talk about eye-opening for me. While I have always LOVED doing for my daughter; nurturing her; building her social life, I realized that my social life had come to a complete halt. I think many dedicated mothers can relate to this.

Well, yesterday my baby girl came home and going forward I promise to make time for me. Even if it’s just once a month. I will treat myself. I will pay attention to only me. I will hang out with other adults. I will let my hair down and pretend I don’t have a child for at least once a month. I need to. If I don’t I may find myself with another seven years passing me by becoming completly lost in parenthood. I will never forget that I’m Christin Webb first and someone’s mother second. So glad we had some time apart or otherwise I may not have actualized it the way that I have.

Published by Christin Webb

Hi Reader! I am a passionate young woman always aspiring to become better each day. I use the word passionate often, but I do so because I truly believe it defines who I am. I do everything passionately. I love to write. I enjoy singing. I love speaking and teaching. I desire to inspire others through my work and in turn myself. This blog is all about encouraging myself and others to find their true happiness in life through living out their passions. More formally, I am a single mother, writer, producer, businesswoman, thinker, and believer. If I haven't learned much of anything else in the last thirty plus years, its that a person must be happy with self. I know that if you're not happy with yourself, then no one around you has a dying chance in meeting your expectations or positively affecting your life. I hope this blog reaches tons of people desiring to better themselves through what makes them happy the most! That's my purpose. That is my plan.

2 thoughts on “Person First. Mommy Second.

  1. Christin,

    I have enjoyed reading your blog and enjoyed this post as well. I am going to order your book and I look forward to reading it. I wish you all the best success with it and life. Have a great day.

    Alonzo

    1. Hi Alonzo!!! Thanks so much for checking out my blog. I’ve been slacking, but I’m going to get back on it beginning TODAY! 😉 Thanks for finding interest in it and securing a copy of my book, Enough Time. Much success to you as well! Take care!

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: